Back in October of 2003, I stumbled across the following ground rules. I’m now posting them here so I don’t lose them again. Hopefully, they’ll help you as much as they’ve helped me. This is NOT posted towards anyone in particular. Continue reading ‘Ground rules for constructive fighting’
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I will always love you. You are my family. I will support you in every way I can while still remaining true to myself. I expect you to do the same.
And you should not “get over” the fact that I’m angry with you. It should bother you! Given what you know about me, the fact that I’m this angry should in and of itself give you much to think about.
This is my last post on the subject. Anything further that needs to be said will be done offline. You know me - I was raised to believe image is everything. I will go to hell and back in order to protect our family. Again, I expect you to do the same.
I know that had nothing to do with me … and I feel bad for saying this … but if I don’t say it here, I know it’ll slip out at some other time … so … Thanks. It really is for the best - for everyone concerned - even if it doesn’t feel that way right now.
A few months ago, I spent a few days house/dog-sitting for two of my Mom’s friends. Now, since I’m still technically unemployed, I’m doing it again until Tuesday. It’s kinda weird poking around in someone else’s house. It reminds me of when I used to babysit as a tweener. After I put the kids down, I would look thru all the kitchen drawers and cabinets just to see where they put stuff and how that was different from where I would put stuff if it were my place. Course, since I’m a perv, I’d also look for porn and condoms and whatever else I could find. 
I thought I was soooo smart putting everything back the way I found it exactly but those people probably had nanny-cams and saw every move I made when they got home. I’m not sure which is worse - going thru someone’s stuff while they’re not home or watching someone go thru your stuff while you were out and having paid them a nice hourly rate to boot! Sometimes I feel like I should have a My-Name-Is-Earl kind of list but then I think it’s probably better to just leave the past in the past and move on. At least now I don’t steal stuff from the houses I am supposed to be watching. I guess that’s an improvement. Right?
Here’s a pic I took three years ago today for all my webcam fans. Aside from my computer now being in my office instead of my bedroom, not much has changed.
Remember to smooch your loved ones extra special today and tell your friends you love them! I’ll be hiding from the snow/ice/sleet at home today. Drop me a note and share the love 
Warning - I’m a bitch. Don’t read on if you want to keep thinking I’m a nice person… Continue reading ‘I don’t understand’
I’m heading to the vet now. Wretch’s seizures continued (he’s has 6 that we know of) but his bloodwork came back normal so it’s probably a brain tumor. In his last fit he bit a hole in his tongue. I relayed the vet’s words to Flagg and he agreed - it’s time to let him go.
Thanks for your sympathies. Wretch will be missed.
Wretch, Flagg’s cat, is living with me while Flagg is otherwise occupied. My cat, Paine, and Daddy’s cat, Nermal, have been dealing with this intrusion very well since we all lived together a few years ago and this is the second time Wretch has come to stay here in my office. Really, things have been going great. Maybe too good? Continue reading ‘Scary Cat’
Last night, I got in from Pheonix and made it home without incident. After a quick reunion with my folks, Daddy came over and we spent the rest of the night ‘catching up’. I slept through most of today and am spending tonight at Rapture taking sessions and planning my activities for tomorrow night’s TES party. Hope ya’ll didn’t miss me too much!