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Another busy week ahead

A quick overview of the week ahead:

  • Tonight I’m going to spend some time with a friend I haven’t seen in months! Two busy people and many rescheudled meetings = months between trists :(
  • There’s a nor’ easter heading this way so I’m going up to Kimi & Daddy’s place tonight so I don’t have to deal with the weather tomorrow or Monday morning before going back to the freelance day-job.
  • Monday night is the Prometheus Summit Meeting at TES. I still need to work up an agenda and finalize my arguements – they’re on tomorrow’s to-do list.
  • Tuesday I’m planning to come back home for a puppy play date and a night in bed with my kitties. It’s amazing how much I miss my animals during the week!
  • Wednesday I’m going to help Mistress Trish pierce her slave’s ears.
  • Thursday there’s a benefit for the MS Prision Project at Arena Studios in NYC.
  • Friday I’m coming back home to see my animals and destress from the week of running around.

At this rate I have to wonder when am I going to get to cash in my rain checks? <sigh> not enough hours in the day!

The prom was great!

I had such a good time at TES’ Drag Prom on Friday! I was all dressed up – pictures coming soon – and had 5 scenes over the course of 5 hours. Damn fun, all of it. I have to get some sleep so a full write-up isn’t possible right now but when I get home from DOSF next week, I promise I’ll write about it:) Hugs!!!

Hormones & Mood Swings

I’ve been bitchy, grumpy and generally moody fo the last week or so. I was planning to blame it on hormones but Daddy tells me there might be more to it. The good news is my mood is improving today and I’m no longer avoiding my medications ‘just cause’.

This week looks like it’s going to be another busy one but I don’t mind – at least I won’t be bored! :) If you’re in the area, drop by TES on Tuesday to learn about cigar play and hang out with some cool folks.

TES Meeting this Tuesday

Over the Edge – When Fantasies Go Too Far
with Goddess Tatsumi and Soulhuntre

Most of us have disturbing fantasies at one time or another – thoughts of death, drowning, cannibalism, castration or other extreme fetishes.
Does that make you insane or evil? Does it mean you really want to do these things? What if your partner has dreams that are way beyond your limits? Soulhuntre and Goddess Tatsumi take you on a trip to the darker parts of the darkside and talks about things even many hard-core BDSMers don’t like to talk about. Can you play on the edge without falling in, or is it a slippery slope into the abyss?

Daddy and I weren’t supposed to give this class but the presenter cancelled this week so we were asked to fill in. Since we do a lot of this taboo stuff, I figured we could manage to fill an hour or two talking about it and fielding questions. If you’re in the area, come on down and get a glimpse at the dark inner-workings of our minds. <grins>

Got a gig!

In freelancing – when it rains, it pours. I have three different companies looking at me for work over the next few weeks. Since I can’t afford to sit around waiting for the best offer, I’m accepting the shortest term contract (about 3 weeks) and am telling the other two that I will be back in the game and ready to play in April. Here’s hoping I haven’t just shot myself in the foot.

What this means for you – I will not be home, in front of the cam, during the week. I’ll be staying with Kimi & Daddy Monday night thru Friday morning and returning to my cats & dogs on the weekends.

I know your bummed but please wish me luck anyway because you love and adore me and you want me to be happy. A happy Tatsumi is a more-often-naked Tatsumi :)

Ground rules for constructive fighting

Back in October of 2003, I stumbled across the following ground rules. I’m now posting them here so I don’t lose them again. Hopefully, they’ll help you as much as they’ve helped me. This is NOT posted towards anyone in particular. Continue reading ‘Ground rules for constructive fighting’

Response

I will always love you. You are my family. I will support you in every way I can while still remaining true to myself. I expect you to do the same.

And you should not “get over” the fact that I’m angry with you. It should bother you! Given what you know about me, the fact that I’m this angry should in and of itself give you much to think about.

This is my last post on the subject. Anything further that needs to be said will be done offline. You know me – I was raised to believe image is everything. I will go to hell and back in order to protect our family. Again, I expect you to do the same.

You're so vain

I know that had nothing to do with me … and I feel bad for saying this … but if I don’t say it here, I know it’ll slip out at some other time … so … Thanks. It really is for the best – for everyone concerned – even if it doesn’t feel that way right now.

Dog-Sitting and other oddities

A few months ago, I spent a few days house/dog-sitting for two of my Mom’s friends. Now, since I’m still technically unemployed, I’m doing it again until Tuesday. It’s kinda weird poking around in someone else’s house. It reminds me of when I used to babysit as a tweener. After I put the kids down, I would look thru all the kitchen drawers and cabinets just to see where they put stuff and how that was different from where I would put stuff if it were my place. Course, since I’m a perv, I’d also look for porn and condoms and whatever else I could find. ;) I thought I was soooo smart putting everything back the way I found it exactly but those people probably had nanny-cams and saw every move I made when they got home. I’m not sure which is worse – going thru someone’s stuff while they’re not home or watching someone go thru your stuff while you were out and having paid them a nice hourly rate to boot! Sometimes I feel like I should have a My-Name-Is-Earl kind of list but then I think it’s probably better to just leave the past in the past and move on. At least now I don’t steal stuff from the houses I am supposed to be watching. I guess that’s an improvement. Right?

Happy V-Day

VDay2004Here’s a pic I took three years ago today for all my webcam fans. Aside from my computer now being in my office instead of my bedroom, not much has changed.

Remember to smooch your loved ones extra special today and tell your friends you love them! I’ll be hiding from the snow/ice/sleet at home today. Drop me a note and share the love :)