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Tonight at DSF

Time sure flies when you’re not paying attention! Tonight is my needle play class for DSF at Paddles in NYC. Click here for the full event description and details. I’m in a great mood, have 2 super-cute demo bottoms and a tentative play date after the class. Sadly my acupuncturist friend won’t be joining us this time. Even still, I’m planning to have a great time teaching folks how to safely poke holes in each other while having fun. If you’re in the area, you should drop by and say hello! :)

Presenting the Goddess Tatsumi

Looks like I’ll be giving my Needle Play class at DomSubFriends next month. Click here for the full event description and details. I wonder if the audience would mind if I showed up in a comfy t-shirt and jeans instead of kinky, fetish attire. <shrugs> Maybe the Goddess will have returned to me by then and I’ll feel like getting all dressed up. I suppose we shall see :)

It's not you, it's me.

A lovely person recently wrote the following in a FetLife post and it really resonated with me.

People come and go in life. Some stay for a time, be it short, to teach, to learn or to grow. Some step in and back out because of their inability to accept, give, or receive what is needed or offered. Some are easy to let go of in life, and other are much more difficult.

I’m one of those people who often ‘go’. I’m not easy to be friends with because I’d rather stay home with my animals than go see the people I love. I can’t tell you how many times I hear “Wow, I haven’t seen you in ages!” And they are right.

It’s not that I don’t love my friends, it just that I am a bit of a socially akward person (believe it or not) who is much more comfortable in front of her computer than hanging out in person.

Really, it’s not you – it’s me and I’m working on it.

Short update

Has it really been 4 months since my last update? Sheesh! All I can say in my defense is that I’ve been super chatty on twitter. You can follow me @tatsumi.

So, to wrap up the last 4 months…

  • I stopped doing Freelance Graphic Design and started my own company with my girlfriend. Soulhuntre and Kimi are both super supportive - Yay poly!
  • My very good friend and leather-uncle passed away. I miss him lots.
  • My mom and I went to Disney World in November for a few days and I actually had a pretty good time at the park and with my family. 
  • I had a nice 35th birthday last month and good holidays considering all the stress that comes with them.
  • I just got back from a short vacation in Arizona where I visited my grandparents and loved the warm weather.
  • Shortly, girlfriend and I will head to Texas for the National Task Force’s Creating Change conference in Dallas.
  • And I’m working my guts out trying to get this company off the ground. Given the current economic situation, we’re doing okay but not as well as we could/should be.

That’s about it! Look for another update in the summer. LOL!

Too many drafts!

I have 2 posts in draft stage, about Leather Retreat and TESFest, just waiting for me to finish them. I’ll get around to it eventually.

In the meantime, I thought you all would like to know that the formerly-nameless-LGBTQ-talent-agency has been named PhinLi Bookings, LLC. You should check them out on twitter @PhinLi.

Getting ready for Leather Retreat

This year, instead of going to Dark Odyssey Summer Samp in September, I’m going to attend Dark Odyssey Leather Retreat during the last week of June. I’m a little apprehensive about going by myself, but I’m also really excited! I don’t have any play dates or sex dates set up yet but I do have a line on some cuddle time and am looking forward to a private Cigar party with some great people. Plus I’m working a ton in registration so I’ll get to meet a lot of folks as they arrive – I’m sure I’ll be able to set something up if I feel like it :)

Go Iowa!

Not that I’m a big political animal, but I feel the need to share the good news in Iowa today. http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/30433846/

Crazy that IOWA is more progressive than most of the East Coast, but there it is.

Poof

And just like that, it’s gone. A big thank you to Soulhuntre for doing the tech work required to make the move.

In other news, I’m thinking about checking out http://www.poly-nyc.com/pride.html this weekend. Any ever been? Planning to go this year? Wanna meet at the cuddle party on Friday night? <grins>

Almost outta here

In just 13 short hours, I’ll be on the road to DOSC ’08. I hope it doesn’t rain and I don’t have any panic attacks. See ya’ll on the flip side! :)

DOSC 08 packing list

These are a few of the items I plan to bring to camp. Fortunately, I’m driving down in an SUV so I can fit all of this crap!! Continue reading ‘DOSC 08 packing list’